There are a lot of submissives / slaves out there who have tried to live a normal vanilla life and find that something is missing in their existence. They try their best (or better try their best) to not break their wedding vows, but simply find that there is a space deep inside their psyche that needs to be filled, and sadly they either discovered their need for submission too late, or thought that it was something they could ignore. In those cases, this submissively inclined male look for a powerful and knowledgeable MASTER to train and use him.

In many cases they may request the time and "services" of a MASTER and have the mistaken idea that since they pay for the time of SIR in question, they now can call the shots. For kinky Escorts that may work very well and he can simply concentrate on filling this gent's fantasy and make his money at the same time, but for an actual MASTER this would not work out well.

In my case, it would not be possible for you to gain an appointment with me if you have the mistaken idea of serving me only on your terms. I am a lifestyler who has chosen to make part of his living via his passion and craft. I am not unfeeling and will tailor your sessions with me to your area of interests.

I will not allow you to do however, is make demands and/or allow you to top from the bottom. There is a big difference between bringing something I need to know to my attention, using a safety out when necessary and being a pain in the ass wanna be sub who thinks he runs the show.

I can tell the difference and which submissive should I as an honorable MASTER give the opportunity of service ME?

A submissive male will speak honestly and openly to ME about his actual life. I'm aware that a lot of guys have learned from reading how to fake those sentiments, so I really ask questions and see how they react to my questions and if they have staying power in their story. Liars will lose track eventually of the lies they tell.

Since this is largely about financial domination, I will put it even more geared towards this particular fetish. I make certain that he understands that by serving ME, he is now taking on the responsibility to be loyal to ME

 The slave need to make a choice if you he wants to get involved into this or not. Remember that as a MASTER, I'm also a psychologist in many ways. I know and understand the inner working of my submissives. Learn to use that knowledge for my own agenda, but also to advance his life.

I NEVER let him use his actual life as an excuse why he can't tribute, why he can't serve etc. He needs to understand from the beginning that you will not play his games. Rather agree upon a smaller and regular tribute, a longer period of time in between contacts etc.

Remember this is financial domination included here. As far as I am concerned, I will take financial submissives play money without any mercy, if he is really into pushing it I may allow him once in a great while to push his finances.

There are many more things to keep in mind, but this is a good beginning rule!